Media/Press + Collaborations

Full Bio;

Bern Mendez is a neuroscience-based dating and relationship coach with 14 years of experience helping accomplished women thriving in midlife quickly move past subconscious emotional barriers to form deeply committed partnerships.

His method combines practical neuroscience, trauma-informed somatic approaches based on polyvagal theory, and insights from attachment research. Bern starts by helping clients regulate their nervous systems and identify their emotional priorities.

He then uses targeted, strategic interventions that translate these insights into practical, daily decisions, transforming how women choose partners and the quality of their connections.

Bern’s YouTube channel is among the twelve most-followed dating advice sources for women globally, attracting over 30 million views and 227,000 subscribers.

His coaching has guided women in 24 countries—including Fortune 100 executives, physicians, attorneys, scientists, therapists, and entrepreneurs, who now enjoy relationships characterized by mutual respect, emotional depth, and shared commitment.

Featured by CNN, HuffPost, Redbook, Univision, and MindBodyGreen, Bern coaches women globally from his base in Austin, Texas. His practical, research-backed approach cuts through outdated relationship myths, helping women to build the authentic, committed partnerships they want most.

Globally Bern Mendez Ranks Among The Top 12 YouTube Dating & Relationship Advice Channels For Women.

It Also Ranks In The Top .004% Of All YouTube Channels in Subs And Top 1% in Views Worldwide.

Media/Press & Collaboration Inquiries;

Bern welcomes partnerships with hosts, producers, and creators who share his mission of helping women live more emotionally fulfilling lives and build thriving relationships.

To request an interview or propose a collaboration please fill out the short form below.

Bern, together with his small, dedicated team, personally reviews every inquiry.

If the opportunity aligns with his current focus and space is available on his calendar, you’ll receive a reply within one business day.

Short Bio;

Bern Mendez is a dating coach and relationship expert whose neuroscience-based approach has helped hundreds of women find lasting love. His YouTube channel ranks among the top twelve most-subscribed dating advice sources globally. Discover your #1 Attraction Blindspot with his free quiz at his website.